Failure can be the key to your self-esteem
You perception will shape your self-esteem. If you tend to have a negative outlook on life, then you will determine most things as a failure as soon as you hit an obstacle. With a more positive outlook to life, obstacles just add to the excitement as you enjoying learning about new ways to achieve what you want.
You will face these perceived failures in your life, it’s a fact. It is in how you respond to it that makes you either very weak, or very strong. Converting you weaknesses into strengths give you more power through experience and confidence in your own abilities.
If you see failure as dead end, you are just trapping yourself in a very small world. By hitting back against all the odds and overcoming adversity your self-esteem will soar both through internal validation from yourself and the recognition you receive externally from others. Every end should be seen as a new beginning, every failure is just an indication of an upcoming success in your life.
You must battle through your negative thoughts to cross any obstacle put before you. Enjoy the challenge instead of hesitating and fearing failure. It just chips away your self-esteem. Take any feedback with thanks as it is just like a bonus tips for you.
Say no to failure, face the fear of risk and ignore rejection. They will not help your self-esteem. Everything resides in your mind and no where else. Your destiny is in your hands. Take control of your self-esteem and do it your way. You are your own boss in every aspect of your life.